60%

of male suicide victims previously sought mental health services, revealing the systemic failure to provide effective care. 

The consequences extend beyond mental health, as the life expectancy of men at birth has trailed behind other developed nations for over three decades and remains five years shorter than that of women.

Trapped by societal expectations of the "tough guy," and declining opportunities to create positive male friendships, men are undertaking a heavy emotional toll filled with loneliness.

50% → 27%

is the percentage of men with six or more close friends. This number has dramatically plummeted over the past three decades.

15%

of men now report having no close friends at all—a fivefold increase since 1990. These dwindling connections leave many men without the support systems they need, deepening feelings of disconnection and vulnerability.

Education

From the start, boys face challenges in an education system that overlooks their needs. Behind in executive function and attention span, they struggle in a rigid classroom model with few male role models—only 23% of public school teachers are men. Boys lag in reading, while girls dominate advanced academics and outnumber men in college by 3.1 million. Without change, this gap fuels higher unemployment, incarceration, and mental health struggles.

Masculinity

America's masculinity crisis is growing—1 in 4 children lack a father figure, leaving many young men without guidance on manhood, confidence, and balance.

TESTIMONIALS

  • "With social media’s rise, young men turn to “Alpha” influencers who promote wealth, materialism, and a rigid mindset, creating unrealistic expectations of masculinity." - 23M

  • "True masculinity is when a man is secure in themselves and you can’t budge them. Know who they are." - 22F

  • "True masculinity is using male biological gifts to protect and serve others. It is NOT acting aggressive and domineering, nor is it about control, accomplishments, or attraction. It’s about being a strong, disciplined, and virtuous that others can depend on in tough times. It’s about leadership, strength, and integrity." - 22M

Loneliness

Trapped by the “tough guy” stereotype and fewer chances for real friendships, men face rising loneliness. In 30 years, those with six or more close friends dropped from 50% to 27%, while 15% now report having none. Men also communicate less with loved ones than women (47% vs. 59%), leaving many to struggle in silence.

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